I met Otillia a few years ago when I was assisting a photographer with a shoot in the Karkloof forest in the KZN Midlands. Here was this lovely young lady who despite her visual impairment was the perfect model. We did a series of themed images and you would never ever say that this was a model different to any other model that I had ever shot.
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| Otillia modeling in the forest - 2016 |
Late last year I read an article about how Otillia and her new guide dog had been refused entry into a bridal boutique in Umhlanga for her to choose a wedding dress for her upcoming wedding. All of this because her dog was not allowed in the shop because it might mess the dresses up. OMW. What a disgrace! This is not a pet but a WORKING DOG. The eyes of the person. In fact one of the most disciplined and cleanest dogs I have ever come across. (For those of you who don't know, we photographed close to a thousand dogs last year).
I immediately contacted Otillia and asked if we could please do a photo shoot with herself and Dale for the purposes of creating awareness to the uneducated about guide dogs. I also asked her to share her story with me so that I could share it with the photos.
A lovely woman with a minor disability who is day after day discriminated against by store owners, shopping centres and security guards because Dale is apparently not allowed in. What total BS! This is a working dog and people need to be educated.
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| Stand Tall - Otillia and Dale |
This is Otillia's story.
My journey as a VIP (visually impaired person) started in
1994 as a 6 year old. My Grade 1 teacher noticed my inability to see on the
black board. After numerous tests and specialist visits I was diagnosed with a
genetic eye condition called Stargardts. This is a type of macular degeneration
that causes the loss of Central vision and leaves you with some peripheral
vision and there is no prevention or cure in modern medicine yet.
I matriculated in Pretoria at Prinshof School for partially
sighted and blind in 2006 and while most teenagers my age were applying to get
their licenses for their shiny VW Golfs, I was applying to get my shiny black
K9 transporter Tia. Tia Maria stole my heart at first sight but sadly it didn't
work out, she was more of a guard dog than a guide dog.
As a college student I strived for independence and removed
myself far from anyone and anything I knew. Potchefstroom came with a lot of
new adventures but also with big challenges and through my teary phone calls
back home my determination just kept growing. I was desperate to fit into
normal society and subconsciously started training myself to hide my disability
at all costs. I refrained from using my phone in public to avoid people
noticing how closely I had to look at my screen. I learnt in order to appear
less squint I always had to look to the left of someone when I spoke to them. I
also had to constantly break my routines and step out of my comfort zones to
try and build as well as keep confidence and appear confident.
7 Years ago I started my therapeutic massage practice in
Howick KZN. My partner and I bought a home and started establishing a
comfortable life for ourselves but the more comfortable I got, the more I
stopped challenging myself and I started losing confidence and independence. I
started withdrawing more. I started
feeling like a burden on my partner and my sister more often than not.
Last year on my normal route to work I started tripping and
stumbling over rocks and pieces of concrete and realized that there was
construction all along my route. It dawned on me that I was using my memory
instead of my sight to get to work and that this could cause me major injury
because I'm not able to see the ditches, holes and obstacles. I was now even more unsure of myself and relied on others to
get around.
It was a major decision for me applying for a guide dog
again because this would mean revealing my disability which I spent so much
time hiding from the world. Who out there likes drawing attention to their
biggest weakness? You always think that you are coping just fine but you don't
realize how much more fulfilled your life could be.
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| A very special bond |
Dale is my new shiny black sports model with built in navigation,
360 degree obstacle sensors and ABS brake system. She's my eyes, she's my confidence, she's my independence
and she's my best friend. There is no sighted person alive that would ever
understand the complete trust, love, gratitude and companionship between a
visually disabled person and their guide dog.
DALE IS PART OF ME
Well done Robbie on posting this young lady's life story and images on your blog post. It is incomprehensible that in today's world there still exists such ignorance, and such little understanding of the kind of circumstances that people like Otillia must deal with daily. Clearly it is a team effort to access retailers premises, Dale being the critical means in doing so. Why then would access be denied at the point where only part of Dale's guide work is done, and what should be a happy once-in-a-lifetime outing is then completely and utterly destroyed? The negative PR and power of social media will, in the end, deal with those businesses with little or no social conscience.
ReplyDeleteI can only completely agree Dave. The bridal boutique received plenty negative publicity and that whole episode is at the moment being investigated by the Human Rights Commission. It is in many times pure ignorance and at other times done in malice.
DeleteWell done Otillia for letting Dale into your life. I have heard of your practice and been told how good your massages are, but have never met you.
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